I want to share with you all especially my friends who are having a hard time and one of my friends who said that he’s not happy and committing suicide is one of the happiness…
Something happens in our life will not determine our happiness…it’s more the way we react on what happens…one person sees the beautiful girl and the other person sees a ugly bitch…some person sees paris hilton’s pussy is beautiful and the other person sees her pussy like a wizard’s sleeves(I don’t know,my friends told me about it..you think I watch porn is it?)let me give you one example in other people’s daily life…min just lost his job,he decides that he is having a opportunity to have a new work experience,to explore new possibilities and a new adventure in his life…his fucker,black has the same circumstances and decides to jump off a KOMTAR and end it all…one man rejoices and one man commits suicide!!!one man sees disaster and the other sees an opportunity…
Being happy is not an easy task.it can be one of the greatest challenges that we face and we had to put determination on it…maturity means taking a responsibility for our own happiness and choosing to focus on what we have rather than on what we haven’t…we can’t ask someone to point at you with a gun and ask “BE HAPPY OR ELSE!”..it’s you decide what you want in your life…we are the one control our happiness andto be happy,we need to focus on happy thoughts…If you allow a bad remark to occupy your mind,you will suffer…most people remember compliments for few minutes and insults for years…they become MPPP,carrying around trash that should be thrown few years ago…Ex,an old lady say “I still remember how he said that I had an ugly pussy and it’s looks stupid back in 1962!”any compliments she received even yastreday will be forgotten but she still talking about her pussy back in 1962…
I visited an old man from the hospital,he had a cancer which it’s at a terminal state…he was still happy even though he’s going to die…I asked him how come he came to be so happy…he said, “boy,I always look in the future and decides what to do on the next day and the next day and just say everyday..if I wake up the next day I’m very happy about it and live every moment of it…if not,at least I’m happy about it..”I can say every patient will do that…but sadly,he passed away on the next day…maybe he wanted to share this message to anyone like me before he died…I know that he’s still happy in the past and even though he’s gone now…so,why don’t you do the same thing…think about the future…plan what to do for the next day and next day…every morning,when you wake up and say “I had enough of misery,heartache,loneliness and I decided to change things…I decide to be a lot happier than I ever been before.”want to be a happy person…why don’t you start now?may you be well and happy…